Principles for Peace

“Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but not their own facts.”

-Daniel Patrick Moynihan

Are you thinking more positive and accurate?  Hasn’t this been an amazing series!  I have learned so much from you my readers in this discussion.  You  have helped me to better train my mind in the areas of accurate and positive thinking.  Thank you!  Just a few more thinking errors to discuss.  Don’t forget that as we learn these errors it’s crucial to replace them with accurate thinking when you catch them.  Your attempts at first my be a little weak, but with practice you will become a pro at accurate thinking.

In reality, a positive attitude is one of the foundations for accurate thinking.  However, working to eliminate thinking errors and replacing them with accurate thinking certainly helps you to think positive.  They both go hand in hand.

If you feel something does that make it true? Read More »

“All the days of the afflicted are evil.  But he who is of a merry heart has a continual feast.”        - Proverbs 15:15

I’m pitiful.

There’s just no hope.

Nobody loves me.

I’ll never amount to anything.

I’m just stuck in this pitiful ole’ life of mine.

Nothing will ever change.

Well, I guess that’s just the way things are going to be for me.

That’s the way the cookie crumbles.

That figures.  That’s just my Read More »

Have you ever been blamed for something you did not do?  Have you ever blamed someone else for something they did not do?  Have you ever blamed someone for making you mad or miserable?

We have taken quite a long break from our thinking error series because there were other things that I wanted to write about.  We’re coming back to this very powerful series because it is just that - VERY POWERFUL - if learned and mastered.  Somehow when I really see these for what they are - LIES - that really helps me to avoid them.  I think to myself, Read More »

Choices, thoughts, realities, destinies……

It has long been accepted that Napoleon Hill is the expert in personal development.  I came across this video by Napoleon Hill himself.  It is so profound that I wanted to share it with you.  You might come to the conclusion that I’m saying that money is necessary for inner peace.  If you watch the whole video I think you will discover something different.  This video makes a great follow-up to my post on realities. Read More »

Before we begin the discussion of overgeneralizing, I wanted to say:

A Word of Thanks:

I don’t know about you, but I sure have learned a lot from this thinking error series.  Not only have I learned a lot from writing about the errors, but I have learned so much from you, my readers and commenters as you have helped to shed a different light on some of the errors.

As I was writing the last post, the more I wrote the more I realized that I engaged in the polarized thinking more than I thought I did.  Coming up with examples was really helpful to me.  And your comments caused me to think even further.

Thanks to Lance and Evelyn for their excellent discussion of Read More »

This week we will continue our series on thinking errors.  If you haven’t yet read the post on labeling and jumping to conclusions then I encourage you to begin there.  I thought it would be best to keep these thinking errors to two to three errors per post so that they would have the greatest impact.  Learning about them is one thing, but knowing them intimately and mastering accurate thinking is the only way this information will make a difference in your life.

So let’s take a look at the next thinking errors:

3. Filtering out the positive in order to point out the negative

With this error people have a “filter” in their mind that only catches the negative.  The positive slides right Read More »

Have you ever lied to yourself and believed it?  Chances are you have.  Most people have.  I have.  That’s basically what thinking errors are and most people engage in at least some of them.

This one series on accurate thinking has the potential to change a person’s life in very drastic ways. It changed mine in probably more ways than I can ever name.

Many people are very offended to think that someone would suggest that they do not think accurately.  If that is you, know that you are not alone.  “What do you mean I’m not thinking right?” might be a typical reaction.  It’s ok if you feel that resistance.  Once you see the thinking errors you will probably Read More »

The kick off of our thinking error series will be postponed for a few more days.  I wanted everyone to have the opportunity to check out my guest post, 4 Invaluable Aspects of Positive Thinking,  on the Positive Thinking Day site.  Positive Thinking Day is fast approaching!  If you are unaware of what Positive Thinking Day is Read More »